Accelerated Hypnotherapy – Rapid Results

Let’s take a look at the #1 predictor of divorce.

If you’re noticing this method of communication, your relationship might be heading for trouble.

Rsearch done by the Gottman Institutehas shown that there’s 4 communication methods that signal the end of your relationship, called the Four Horsemen.

Four Horsemen

The Four Horsement that signal the end of a relationship:

1 Criticism – is not a complaint about behaviour but a criticism that attacks the person.

2 Defensivenes – Is often the response to criticism, not taking responsibility and putting the blame onto someone or something else.

3 Stonewalling – is being so emotionally triggered that you tune out and shut down and you don’t respond so if either you or your partner in response. Your emotions mayin this heightened state of reaction from conflict and the contempt that’s coming from the conflict.

4 Contempt – is a loss of respect for the other person and it comes from a place of feeling like the other person is inferior. It comes with body language, like eye rolling and/or sneering. If you contrast contempt with anger, anger is when you’re evaluating and you’re upset about someone’s actions. Contempt is when you’re making a judgment about your partner’s value. There is an extreme dislike and a feeling of superiority a feeling that you’re better than them.

Contempt is the #1 predictor of break up and divorce.

These are all communication styles that might be coupled with unresolvable conflicts where you just can’t see eye to eye. You’re not being validated about what you think or what you feel about this conflict.

Contempt really does come from a place of feeling unappreciated, invalidated and unacknowledged – there’s that humanity underneath the contempt, where either you or your partner really doesn’t feel valued or appreciated.

If you’re getting into the area of contempt and stonewalling and you’re feeling like you just want to get away or you just freeze and you stop responding altogether…

If your partner doesn’t want to go to couples therapy, hypnosis can help you reset your communication habits.

You can connect with all the answers and the resources in your subconscious mind.

You already have all the answers to these conflicts to where your relationship is heading.

You can do hypnosis to resolve your experience of conflict and you can do it on your own. You don’t need to wait for your partner’s buy-in.

Accelerate Hypnosis can give you the answers to what’s happening with the contempt and conflict in your relationship so you can avoid breakup and divorce.

Hypnosis can give you the understanding and Insight. It can provide quantum leaps in insight that you need to resolve these problems and conflicts in your relationship.