You want to go to couples therapy but your partner isn’t interested in going.
There’s four signs that predict the likelihood of divorce, called The Four Horsemen that signal that the end of the relationship is near, according to relationship researcher, John Gottman.
There are four ways of communicating with your partner that signal that your relationship is in trouble.
1. Criticism
If you use a lot of “you” statements (instead of “I” statements)and make blaming statements. Criticism isn’t simply complaining about a specific incident or issue but it attacks your partner’s persistent character flaws using words like always and never.
2. Defensiveness
The response to criticism is the second Horseman, defensiveness.
Instead of listening to your partner, you perceive an attack and go on the defensive. It’s a natural reaction to criticism and feeling like you’re being attacked personally.
3. Contempt
The third sign your relationship might be in trouble is feelings of contempt. It is the number one sign of divorce.
You don’t respect your partner and use sarcasm and condescension., hostile humour, name-calling, and body language like eye-rolling and sneering.
You not only feel disgust and disrespect but you also feel superior in character, morally, and/or ethically.
4. Stonewalling
Often, the response to contempt in conflict is stonewalling, where you or your partner is shuts down completely. You tune out and can’t respond.
There’s physiological and emotional flooding, where you’re experiencing such intense emotion, you shut down and just want to get the hell outta Dodge.
If you’re seeing any of these signs in your communication style and your partner doesn’t want to go to couples therapy, hypnosis can help you resolve what’s going on.
You alone can change the dynamic in the relationship. We can connect you with your subconscious inside of hypnosis with the most resourceful state that you have ever experienced .
You can access a state where all the answers to what’s happening in your relationship are.
All the solutions are waiting for you in your subconscious mind.
You can get access all the answers in 1 – 3 sessions of hypnosis.
You don’t have to wait for your partner to go to months of couples therapy and rehash all the painful memories with them.
Hypnosis is something that you can do to stop surviving your relationship and have it start thriving.

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