Unresolved Conflicts That May Lead to a Break up

Do you have unresolvable conflicts in your relationship?

The research around conflict done by marriage researcher, John Gottman, has shown that two out of three conflicts are actually not resolvable.

This means for every conflict that you actually do resolve with your partner, there will be twice as many that you will not be able to resolve.

That’s a whole lot of unresolved conflict going around creating resentment and from a neuroscience point of view your brain can only hold 7 bits of information at a time (+/- 2). So that’s anywhere from 5 to 9 bits of information that can be used to solve these conflicts at one time.

What we know from studies in multitasking, the brain isn’t good at multitasking. It’s better at focusing on one thing at a time. If you add emotion into the mix, the logical part of your brain actually goes offline when you’re emotional.

If you have this recurring conflict that is emotional and even thinking about it activates some type of emotion in you, these conflicts are going to be very hard to resolve at that conscious level.

Maybe you’ve been trying to resolve these conflicts for weeks, months, possibly even years and you haven’t been able to do it with your conscious mind, with those 7 bits of information that you can use to resolve these conflicts.

If it’s just not happening, you might have read books, watched videos, read blogs, you might have even gone for coaching or counseling and maybe your partner isn’t interested in going to couples counseling.

These problems have been persisting and they’re affecting your relationship with your partner.

If you feel you’ve tried everything and these problems are still around affecting the way you feel in your relationship, hypnosis can help.

Hypnosis can actually solve the problem at a whole different level. In the most resourceful state of hypnosis, you can access all the resources that you have available to you.

Your subconscious mind knows how to take those resources, those answers and create the perfect solution to that conflict.

These conflicts might be unresolvable at the conscious level but subconsciously they can be resolved.

I have seen the amazing results of the subconscious mind. I’ve seen people who don’t think that they can get into that resourceful state of hypnosis to come up with answers and solutions. These solutions seem to have a Quantum Jump in insight.

Everyone has a subconscious so that means that everyone has this resourceful state that they can access through hypnosis.

You have al the resources, all the answers to resolve these conflicts at a subconscious level

Let me know if you have any questions.

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