I had a conversation with a friend about hypnosis he didn’t think he could be hypnotized. He didn’t think that he needed hypnosis but he was struggling in his love life.
He was a successful guy, tall, dark and handsome, looking for love online. He was dating and spending a lot of time on dating apps. But when he would meet someone, he would love bomb them.
His love language was physical touch, so he led with physical touch.
Touch was his love language but it might not have been the love language of the women that he was dating. So even though he looked good on paper, on he showed up with this neediness, a hunger for affection…
He would put himself out there physically and would get upset and feel rejected when these women didn’t feel comfortable with his love bombing.
He displayed over-the-top, physical affection in public after he had only known them for a few hours because he knew what he wanted but the women were probably still trying to figure him out.
He was like a flare. He had all this energy but it fizzled out quickly… So after a few dates of them not reciprocating his heightened level of physical touch (driven by this desire for affection), he would fizzle out like a flare and have to start the whole dating process again with a different women.
Instead of understanding that women just need security and consistency, built upon trust and reliability, he needed to change anything.
This is where hypnosis can help, inside of relationships (or potential relationships). It could help him see what everybody else sees already, that over-the-top physical affection, coupled with being love-starved for affection, and putting himself out there so much physically. And as a result, feeling rejected when it was too much for the women that he was dating. Then fizzling out like a flare, instead of showing up consistent…
Instead of all that energy up front, he wasn’t able to spread it out for a few days, weeks or months (years even), so that the women that he was dating could get a sense of him. To give them a chance to feel a sense of reliability and build some trust.
But as far as dating and relationships went he believed he was all good but he had been single for decades.
Hypnosis can help when you’re not getting (at the conscious level) why you’re single, why you might be having these conflicts inside of your relationship…
My friend was not be able to empathize how it might be for other people to be with him or the impact of his Lovebombing…
He was not be able to see how his lack of consistency and how that landed for potential partners.
But here’s the thing…
If you tell somebody who has these problems and try to tell them how what they’re doing is a problem, they will resist what you’re saying. They will become defensive, and dig in to whatever it is they’re doing.
So telling somebody about their problem, ultimately reinforces those issues and those problems in that person because they become defensive.
This is why everyone has to discover whatever is going on for themselves and the best way to get those insights that you can’t see consciously (that are outside your conscious awareness) but are affecting your relationship (or your attempts to be in a relationship) .
Hypnosis can give you those insights that you just can’t get with your conscious mind, the areas where you have blind spots, where you don’t even think that you have a problem.
Things that are so outside the level of your conscious awareness that you think you’re all good…
Leaving you wondering what is wrong with these people that you’re dating.
Whatever’s going on for you, in your relationship, if you’re sensing patterns…
If you’re having conflict inside of your relationship…
If you’re single and you’ve been there before, like a pattern…
If things happens in your relationships like clockwork, there may be something going on that you can’t see. Things that are in your blind spots.
Hypnosis helps you see what’s in your blind spots because your subconscious mind is aware of it all.
When you connect with your subconscious mind through hypnosis, you get these insights.
You get quantum shifts in thinking.
You see areas that are the problem and you come up with solutions. You see different ways of being inside of dating, inside of your relationship.
You find solutions that will have you showing up inside of a relationship powerfully when you relate to another person inside a relationship (or a potential relationship).
Hypnosis is the best thing to get insights and quantum shift in love and relationships.
Hypnosis can help you see your blind spots and give you access to all answers, all the results, and all the different ways of being in relationships.
These new ways of being can be integrated effortlessly and easily often in one session of Accelerated Hypnosis.

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