If you have a persistent problem in your relationship, consider that there are problems that your conscious mind can solve.
Those are the problems that come and go because you can resolve those conflicts with your partner.
You may even be able to resolve these problems on your own because your conscious mind identifies what the problem. It understand the parts of the problem and is easy to figure out a solution at that level of mind.
Consider that if you’re having a persistent problem, that the reason that it’s persisting is because your conscious mind might not have the ability to resolve this problem because if it could resolve the problem, if it had the answers, it probably would have solved that problem already.
If you have a persistent problem, resolving it is probably very important to you and your relationship. The problem probably affects your relationship as well as other parts of your life that it bumps into. It probably affects how you’re feeling. It’s like your conscious mind has a map of the problem but parts of the map are missing.
Unresolvable problems exist in your subconscious mind.
It’s like you have an old outdated paper map (imagine those maps that were first drawn by explorers). The map might not even include the roads or buildings so you’re trying to navigate the problem with this old map.
If you have a problem for a while, you might even have a map that’s been drawn by a child and you’re trying to figure out the territory as an adult but you have the map that was created in childhood.
If you’re trying to navigate a complex problem with a simple map this old is why you can’t figure out how to solve it.
This problem persists for you in your relationship in the subconscious mind and that level of mind has 3-D virtual maps of the problem. You can solve the problem right there on the ground.
In addition, your subconscious mind has all the resources that it needs to explore the terrain. It’s got a four-wheel drive monster truck, it’s got a boat, a helicopter, and a plane to help you get to where you want your relationship to be.
If you’ve had a problem that has been around for more than 30 days (hopefully the problem has not been persisting for months or years), it might be time for you to access all those resources in your subconscious mind.
If your problem has been persisting, it might be time for you to see what’s really going on in your subconscious mind and access all the resources and all the answers that are available when you connect with your subconscious mind with Accelerated Hypnosis.
Let me know if you have any questions and we’ll talk soon.

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