You have big goals, dreams, maybe even a passion project.
Things aren’t going quite as smoothly as you like. It might even feel like for every one step forward, you take two steps back.
There’s a part of you that likes where you are.
Nothing fancy, just stayin’ alive
And it might even be very comfortable staying there forever.
From an evolutionary point of view, It’s really safe where you are – meaning you are alive. You have survived another day.
The unknown and what’s uncertain are threatening to this part that just wants to survive another day.
So if you look at personal development, through your conscious mind, it takes a lot of willpower and motivation.
It’s kinda a big deal to leave the safety of what’s familiar to go for something in the unknown where things are uncertain.
Let’s take a closer look at what’s happening…
There’s probably some type of emotion that’s keeping you stuck where you are.
And when you try to go for what it is you really desire, and start moving toward a future state, which your brains sees as an unfamiliar state of uncertainty – there’s a part of you that feels uneasy.
Real uneasy….
It wants to go for it but also feels some kinda feels about it.
It’s the part of you that feels stuck.
That underlying emotion, like fear, guilt, shame, resignation, feeling like why bother? will keep you where you are.
Meanwhile another part of you feels safe because your brain is designed to stay in what’s familiar because we can survive there.
We might not be really be enjoying it, but we know that we can survive there.
It might actually suck a lot, but it’s it’s what’s familiar.
It’s what you’ve always had in the past.
You just can’t seem to muster up enough willpower or motivation to move from that place of familiarity.
But you dream of a different future. You have a desire, a goal, a passion project that keeps popping up for you.
These things keep calling you into a different future.
This creates a problem because the more you experience that feeling of desire, the more disappointed and unhappy you become with your present situation.
Your future is calling you to take some type of action to get to where you would really be fulfilled.
But you’re stuck there because you just can’t seem to move or leave where you are.
It’s complex.
If it was simple, your conscious mind would have already solved the problem and you would be there already or well on your way, at the very least.
You might have tried everything.
You might not even know what it is that you need exactly.
You’ve been trying for years and and you’re still stuck.
But complex problems need to be solved at a whole ‘notha level – at the level of your subconscious mind.
Once your conscious mind is out of the way, you can connect with your subconscious mind and resolve anything that’s holding you back.
Your subconscious mind knows exactly what it is that you need and it has all the resources to back it up.
It can literally change the neural pathways in your brain and expand your mind to make what’s possible for you (and your life) expand.
And so as you realize that you have access to these resources, you can have an experience in a deep resourceful state and learn how to apply them in your life.
You will find that what’s possible for you will expand, and as your mind expands, your choices will expand as well.
You will no longer be stopped because you have a new set of choices that are available to you, where before you didn’t really have a choice because of everything that held you back.
And then as this is all happening, all those negative feelings that were keeping you stuck, like the fear, maybe feeling like you’re an imposter or feeling like you just don’t have the confidence…
You may be feeling resigned because you’ve tried so many times and nothing’s worked.
Your subconscious mind will resolve all of the emotions at a deeper level so they no longer stop you.
We can reprogram your subconscious GPS for that new desired destination so you can move forward with nothing holding you back.
If this sounds familiar to you or it resonates with you at any level, let’s connect on a free Discovery call and get you on you way.

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