There are websites and podcasts and courses about how to get your ex back because this is the way you feel when maybe when you feel like something’s been taken away from you too soon. You weren’t ready for it.
When you don’t have closure.
You feel like you’ve lost an ex, there’s a void or that space in your heart, and you only want it to be filled with that person who’s that exact shape of that whole of that cutout.
And if you start to think logically about it, nothing about wanting your ex back makes sense.
This is why wanting an ex back needs to be resolved at the subconscious level. When logic and emotions collide, there’s something going on below, that’s making you long for an ex that broke up with your or you broke up with.
Sometimes we do things that don’t make sense at all.
Maybe your ex ghosted you and you’re feel like you need to find out why before you can move on.
Maybe they left you for whatever reason that they gave you, and that might not even be the real reason.
You may never find out what the real reason is.
Logic
When you think about the whole situation logically, what is it about you that makes you wanna be with someone that doesn’t want you.
That leaves you feeling kinda stuck and stopped in life so that you can’t really move forward to find someone who actually wants to be with you.
Someone who you choose and who chooses you.
Women in this situation have a favorite saying, “The heart wants what the heart wants.”
They’ve given up logic, wanting the ex back who doesn’t want them, who left them and may leave them again.
There’s that feeling of grasping something that is just slightly beyond your reach, a feeling of anxiety, of uncertainty that maybe feels really familiar to you. It’s all that stuff all of complex that’s going on below the surface.
Wanting your ex back, wanting to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with you, wanting someone that’s rejected you, are just like dandelions (not even flowers but weeds) that are popping up on your lawn that come from what’s going on below the surface.
This complex system of root causes has you stuck in the past, wishing for what was, a relationship wasn’t quite balanced.
Not moving forward is actually making an indirect choice to stay stuck instead of finding something that’s healthier, more satisfying, fulfilling, something that makes you feel truly loved, someone that you can work with to build a future together.
And not be worried that they are going to leave you again.
Whenever you’re in this situation where things aren’t making sense, and there’s this emotional feeling that compels you to want it anyway. This is a clue that things have gone underground.
It’s taken on a life of its own. It wants, what it wants, even though it doesn’t make sense.
When you’re ready, and only when you’re ready to be happy again, to look forward to the future and not be stuck in the past and dragged down by the past…
When you’re ready, we can connect you with your subconscious.
Your subconscious has a care plan for you that includes exactly how to let go of the past.
You’ll get insights about what it is about you that makes you want someone who doesn’t want you.
You will heal the past, the distant past and not so distant.
And you will get it.
You’ll be able to get that in a way that’s profound because you will have a learning experience in a deep resourceful state.
And that insight will cause you to expand.
In a way that is unique to you and will only make sense to you, your subconscious will help you understand that you deserve better by possibly healing whatever was the root cause of you feeling that way in the first place – whatever’s going down there, all the things that are conscious to you, the things you know about and so much more that you’re not aware of that is truly unconscious to you.
You will find the resources and the strength within you to move forward.
And that crazy emotion of wanting what you can’t have will be neutralized.
It will no longer compel you. It will just be neutral thought with no emotion or longing.
The air will be taken out of whatever used to compel you insideof that thought so that you can truly start from nothing…
start from zero…
start fresh, with your love life.
So that you can look forward to the future and possibly find the best relationship that you’ve ever had because you are now a different person.
The neural pathways in your brain will have been changed by the insights that you received, supported by those resources that are there waiting for you.
So instead of listening to five hundred episodes of how to get your ex back by not talking to them…
You can do something that’s totally within your control and is actually your responsibility to move on in a healthy way…
to leave the past in the past…
to believe…
to get the insights…
where you truly believe that there are unlimited possibilities for you as you move forward, into a new compelling future.

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