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Imagine you’re in a burning house. The flames are spreading, and you’re engulfed in smoke. At that moment, it doesn’t matter how the fire started, who lit the match, or why the house is burning. The priority is getting out to safety. Once you’re safe, then you can reflect on the cause.

This analogy is a powerful metaphor for dealing with overwhelming emotions. When we’re in the midst of emotional turmoil—whether it’s anxiety, grief, or anger—our brain’s natural response is to seek out the “why.” We want to understand what caused the pain, but focusing solely on the “why” can keep us stuck in the flames, leaving us immobilized. Neuroscience research shows that addressing the emotional experience first, before analyzing its origins, is essential for mental and emotional well-being.

The Neuroscience of Emotional Overload

When you’re overwhelmed by difficult emotions, your brain goes into survival mode, activating the amygdala—the brain’s fear and stress center. The amygdala triggers the fight, flight, or freeze response, making it damn near impossible to think clearly or rationally. In these moments, trying to “figure out” the cause of your emotions is like trying to reason your way out of a fire by trying to understand how it started in the first place. According to research, the brain prioritizes emotional safety over logical understanding, and attempting to solve the “why” before you’re safe can actually worsen stress and anxiety.

A study published in Nature Communications (2019) highlights that when people focus on analyzing their emotions during heightened distress, they often amplify negative feelings. This is because the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for rational thinking—gets hijacked by the emotional intensity coming from the amygdala. The key, then, is to first calm the emotional storm before reflecting on the causes of it.

Finding Emotional Safety

Just as you would escape a burning building to safety before investigating the fire, it’s crucial to create emotional safety from the chaos of your feelings before digging into the “why.” Hypnosis can transform the emotional storm in the amygdala and activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which calms the body.

Research from the Harvard Review of Psychiatry (2020) supports the idea that reducing the amygdala’s hyperactivity in a hypnotic state can allow the brain to move from survival mode to a state of calm. Only then is the prefrontal cortex capable of analyzing the emotional experience in a productive and constructive way.

Why Understanding “Why” Doesn’t Help

Knowing why you’re feeling a certain way can be important for long-term healing and growth, but it’s not necessary for calming emotional distress, which one you think about it is what’s really at the heart of the issue. 

If you’re focused on solving the problem while in the middle of emotional pain, you run the risk of staying stuck where you are rather than moving toward resolution.

It’s important to prioritize emotional safety. Emotions need to be resolved at the subconscious level. You can’t think your way out of emotions, even though you may have been trying to use logic to solve emotions, it’s probably not working.

Once you’ve calmed your nervous system, you’ll be in a better position to reflect on the root causes of your emotions—and that reflection will be more effective because you’re no longer stuck in survival mode. You also may find once you resolve the trauma that you’re free to move forward and you don’t need to know why anymore. When emotions are flat needing to resolve them with logic is no longer necessary.

In short, when you’re experiencing overwhelming emotions, think of yourself in that burning house. Your priority is to get to safety and resolve the emotions not the logistics.

In the same way that escaping a fire takes precedence over understanding its cause, emotional regulation should come before a full on emotional analysis. By calming your nervous system and moving out of survival mode, you set the stage for healthier, more productive emotional exploration.

You can step away from the “why” and focus on emotional safety with hypnosis. Sometimes you don’t even want it need to revisit the trauma once it’s complete and in the past and you’re no longer stuck in the flames.