Why the Law of Attraction Isn’t Working

You’ve read the books.

You’ve made the vision boards.

You’ve spent months repeating affirmations in the mirror until you’re blue in the face, trying to manifest the money, the career, or that amazing relationship.

And all you’re getting is crickets…

Or worse, you manifest the exact opposite of what you want.

It’s frustrating AF.

You’re exhausted

You might be thinking that the Law of Attraction is just BS.

But here’s what’s actually going down.

The Law of Attraction states that you attract whatever you put your focus on.

But what these manifestation gurus aren’t telling you is that you don’t manifest with your conscious mind.

Your conscious mind that can focus on what you want takes up about 5% of your total brain power. Maybe even less if you’re ADHD.

You manifest with the other 95%—your subconscious mind that’s at work all the time you’re not focusing on what you want and when you’re focusing on what you don’t want with all that emotional intensity and frustration.

And if your subconscious mind is running a completely different script, you have what I refer to as subconscious counter intentions.

What Are Subconscious Counter Intentions?

A counter intention is an underlying, hidden belief system that completely contradicts what you think you want. It’s a mechanism built by your brain to protect you, usually rooted in childhood dynamics, negative past experiences, or unresolved trauma.

It often comes in to your conscious awareness when you’re doing an affirmation, like, “I am abundant”.

For many, the affirmation brings up feelings of how your reality does not match the abundance you’re seeking, you can feel it in your core. It doesn’t feel good.

This is the feeling of abundance that has suddenly come into my conscious awareness.

Where was it before it was made conscious?

It was unconscious.

It was already there in your subconscious.

Let’s look at how this actually plays out in real life:

The Relationship Trap: Consciously, you want a deeply connected, high-value partner who cherishes you. But subconsciously? You believe that intimacy equals control, or that people always leave. Your counter intention is: “If I get too close, I will get hurt.” So, you find yourself choosing people who are emotionally unavailable or critical because that feels predictable and certain. Your subconscious keeps running the show, you find yourself in relationships that are not fulfilling but somehow familar.
The Financial Ceiling: Consciously, you want to find your passion and make massive money. Subconsciously, you grew up hearing that rich people are greedy or that money creates conflict. Your counter intention says: “If I make too much money, I won’t be safe or loved.” Suddenly, you’re self-sabotaging at work, missing deadlines, or just not able to keep the money you’ve been making. You have no idea where it all goes.

Your conscious mind is trying to step on the gas, but your subconscious is slamming on the brakes.

This is what is keeping you stuck AF.

The Subconscious Law: Whatever you are running from is running you.

If your subconscious programming sees your goal as a threat to your safety, it will block it every single time.

Why Trying to Change With Your Conscious Mind Keeps You Even More Stuck

When people realize they are stuck, they usually try to fix it using the model of traditional therapy: thinking about it, analyzing it, or digging up the past to find out why they feel so blocked.

Repetition is one of the best way to learn – and reinforce what’s not working.

But from a neuroscience perspective, trying to bring a deep, complex subconscious block up into your conscious awareness just puts your brain into overwhelm.

Trying to change what is is basically resisting it. It is what is holding it in place.

The Superconscious Law: What you resist persists.

You end up focusing on the past, over-analyzing what’s not working, and ruminating on why you aren’t succeeding.

This reinforcement strengthens these pathways and prevents you from creating new neural pathways.

You cannot solve a subconscious blocks at the conscious level.

Besides, if you could have figured it out with your conscious mind with all the information and insight you have, you probably would have already.

Re-Wiring the Brain With Accelerated Hypnotherapy

This is exactly why Accelerated Hypnotherapy works so fast—because we completely bypass all the resistance of the conscious mind.

We don’t need to dig up decades of painful memories or talk it to death. Your subconscious already has everything recorded all ready.

It knows exactly where the counter intentions were formed.

By working directly at the Superconscious level, we create the perfect neural conditions to remove the blocks that are at the subconscious level.

Information Is Not Transformation

When you stop trying to “fix” or control things with your conscious mind, it opens up space for your brain to do what it already knows how to do: heal and integrate.

Through hypnotherapy, we stop reinforcing rundown pathways of anxiety, lack, and fear.

Every time you ruminate or talk about your blocks, you undergo a process called myelination—which heavily coats those negative nerve pathways so you slip into those bad feelings and self-sabotaging habits even faster.

In hypnosis, we light up an entirely different area of your brain. We work with your brain, building new neural pathways of alignment, equanimity of your authentic self.

As soon as you let go of the conscious resistance and clear those counter intentions, the subconscious and the conscious mind finally align.

I have learned several processes based in neuroscience to help you transform these beliefs in minutes because of the neuroplasticity created in a session of Accelerated Hypnotherapy.

The Superconscious is your access to this space of infinite possibilities.

When you believe something in your core and you can feel it, that’s when the magic happens, and manifestation actually becomes effortless.

In our first session, we removed blocks to love and money. The next weekend she got engaged and sent me this.

After the next weekend, she got a new position with a company that had previously told her had been filled.

If you are ready to start working with your brain instead of against it, clear your subconscious blocks, and get real clarity on how to move forward, let’s connect.

Let’s connect.